- I can’t find the right words to express what I’m feeling.
- I don’t know how to start my song.
- I get stuck in a writing rut and can’t seem to get out.
- I’m worried my song isn’t good enough.
- I’m afraid to show my song to anyone.
- I don’t have time to write a song.
- I get writer’s block often.
- I don’t know how to structure my song.
- I’m not sure what my song is about. Etc.
1. Introduction
2. Not Knowing Where to Start:
3. Overdose of Information:
4. Lyrical Writer’s Block:
5. Melodic Writer’s Block:
6. Not Having an Ear for Music:
7. Not Being Able to Translate Your Ideas:
8. Being Too Broad
9. Not Focusing on Your Target Audience

10. Not Having a Unique Selling Proposition
11. Not Building an Email List
12. Not Utilizing Social Media
13. The lack of feedback received by songwriters.
The lack of response to your music is one of the most demoralizing things you can experience.
When you are in front of a real audience, you would have to be pretty awful not to get some sort of applause. People clap to be polite and to encourage you to keep trying.
Social media, on the other hand, is far more brutal. Online consumers don’t care about you, your music, or how you feel about being rejected. They only care about themselves and their entertainment.
Whenever they share a link to your song or video, they care about how popular they will appear to their friends.
Even though it sounds harsh, you need to appeal to that person’s ego whether it’s your material or something else. You either have to appeal to them on a deeply personal level or you have to make them look good in front of their peers. It is therefore imperative that whatever you present is outstanding, that it is different.
Therefore, it is not surprising that so many artists use shock tactics and/or sexuality to boost their profile.
The choice is yours when nobody is interested in your stuff:
- Sell your soul to the popularity beast or
- Accept that a lot of other musicians are more committed and hungry than you are.
- Dig your trench deeper, ignore popularity, and focus on your art.
When it comes to holding the attention of a viewer, young pretty females are statistically and socially miles ahead of older, more seasoned male performers.
What should we do?
An artist can either go deeper into the music and become more artistic or adopt a more popular or sexually appealing profile if they ignore the ‘give up’ option.
Obtaining feedback and followers is not easy, and it takes a lot more effort than learning how to be a good musician and songwriter.
What you have to ask yourself is, what are they buying into, what are they following? This is why today’s marketers keep shouting about branding and building a following.
14. The lack of motivation, demoralization, or disillusionment of songwriters.
Welcome to the world of songwriters, if you’re here.
Writers, artists, and musicians go through periods when everything seems pointless. It doesn’t matter if it’s an audience member or a creative issue. All of a sudden, this thing we so strongly believed in becomes a poisoned chalice.
It’s because so much of what we do is subjective. Not only that, but its value to us and to society is subjective. This perception in turn is determined by outside events or our own emotions.
Only our perception or context has changed. The music still has the power to move people very quickly to magical and fantastic places.
We are still capable of learning, adapting, and growing, so no matter what challenges arise, we are able to overcome them by taking a break and giving ourselves a break. As artists, we often live creativity 24/7 in our heads. In the event that that suddenly ceases to work, we may panic, forgetting that it probably needed a rest too.
An honest, brutally honest, and personal examination of what we really want sheds new light on old problems with audiences and personal relationships.
A songwriter’s life is an emotional roller coaster, you can either ride it or get off.
I will guarantee that they will have experienced the same feelings of hopelessness as you if you choose to stay on board.
15. When songwriters are unable to sell their songs.
Your songs sell for two reasons:
- There is an audience, a fan base, a following of people who are ‘fanatical’ about you or your songs, and they are obligated to buy your material or attend your performances. You also have a sales mechanism to deliver your product AND to collect your money.
- In ‘sync’ licensing deals, you sell your rights to other entertainment industries such as film and gaming.
Both options require considerably more effort and commitment than learning an instrument and writing songs.
16. The ability to write songs without an instrument.
- The rhythm of the music:
Without an instrument, you can easily write a very good song with a rhythm and something to shout about.
It can be spoons, drums, shakers, graters, or even a metronome. Anything that you can repeat will give you an ostinato, which is a riff or phrase that anchors you or gives you something to circle around.
Above that foundation, you can explore your story and the emotions it evokes.
If you have an attitude and some kind of emotion to express, you can even manage without words.
If you have a good sense of rhythm, start there, then spread your stuff over the top, and voila!
One or two songs can be written with only rhythm. But once you’ve done five or six, you’ll get bored. Time for a keyboard or guitar.
- The digital audio workstation:
Even a free one will have a metronome and a way to layer recordings.
There is a learning curve with these, and you usually need a computer or phone and a microphone, so before you know it, it becomes more expensive and technical than learning to play the keyboard.
If you’re good and want to record, get a DAW, but learn an instrument first.
- The third option is to do it with friends:
The most rewarding and life-enhancing experiences you will ever have are standing around in a circle, just clapping and humming.
If you can, write songs with friends. You’ll be surprised at where it leads.
17. Writing songs when the songwriter cannot sing.
You need to educate your mind’s sense of musicianship, even if it’s out of tune and not pleasant to listen to. If you can just get the rhythm half right, that’s a major improvement compared to simply being a poet without rhythm.
Embrace your bad voice and don’t apologize for it. Be proud of your incompetence and you’ll be surprised how quickly your voice will disappear.
18. Listening is more important than singing.
Listen to the way people speak. Welsh is a particularly singy songy language. And listen to Winston Churchill’s speeches to see how he uses pitch and volume variation to cadence his words and saturate them with emotion.
A really interesting style of singing originated in Europe in the early 20th century called ‘Sprechstimme’ or ‘sprechgesang’.
Have a listen to some of it; it will give you confidence in your own voice, no matter how bad you think it is. Instead of singing fixed pitches, the singer is constantly sliding up and down the scale so that the effect is halfway between talking and singing.
How can you explain how another person should sing a song if you don’t understand the sounds a human voice makes?
Sing your songs badly – but sing them nonetheless.
19. When the songwriter has trouble coming up with words or topics to write about.
You just need to know what to look for and where to look for it to be able to find words or topics.
Every object has a story, be it a wall, a brick, a tree, or an ocean. This story can be told in a few simple sentences. These sentences are your verses. How you feel, or how the observer feels, or how these objects feel or make you feel is totally different, and that is where the song is, the emotion is always the heart of things.
That feeling makes a great chorus or refrain or just the title. And that’s what is important about songwriting. Know where your heart is and keep coming back to this feeling and the attitudes which stem from it.
The song will write itself if you keep returning to the title, the theme, or the emotional topic or hook.
It’s a debate in some songwriting circles titled “bottom up – top down”. It’s about structure or words first. I’d say, forget structure at first. The attitude and emotions in a song are the most important and can be shaped to accommodate them. Everything else is subservient to them.
It’s pointless penciling in a big long chorus if your emotional hook can be served in two words, ‘you dig?’
If you look at songs from this perspective, you’ll quickly understand how hard it is to write a song if you start messing around with chords, structures, and harmonies first.
20. Having stage fright as a songwriter.
At 18 and 58, I had stage fright, and I still do.
The only time you don’t get stage fright is just after you come off the stage. I know that it’s a bummer. However, that ‘lack of stage fright’ stays with you for a few days. It will be much easier for you to manage your performance if you perform twice or three times a week.
There is no way we can all do that, so what do you do in that case?
It’s still a case of managing it rather than defeating it. Remember, in the wild, so many eyes would only be on you if they were eating you, so it’s not natural.
What works for me is a two-pronged approach.
When I’m on stage, I’m able to distance myself from it since I’m a completely different person than I am typing these words. I just think, ‘well he’ll figure it out when he gets there.’
My performance is all about my ‘attitude’ & ’emotions’ when I get on – and this is very important.
Take a moment to consider that last sentence. You must relive the ’emotions’ and imbue the ‘attitude’ of your tale. You must do it completely and wholeheartedly.
If you take this approach, your performance will be outstanding because your audience will believe you.
Also, you can record yourself rehearsing and watch it back to gain confidence.
Practice meditation if you want to be able to control your thoughts and emotions.
Prepare and be organized – I mean everything, if you forget your socks before you start your first song, it will freak you out.
Conclusion
The process of actually writing a song is deeply personal, but it can be learned relatively quickly. We are usually self-motivated, so any problems we encounter can be worked on and resolved relatively quickly.
Working with people and getting them to approve, validate and buy your material is a completely different ball game. Marketing is ten times more challenging than songwriting. Being ignored does not inspire persistence, so you’ll have to work ten times harder.
Wishing you the best of luck.